You Are Mine.....

You Are Mine...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sgm9lkTNQmc

When Peace Like a River

One of my favs....
When Peace Like a River....

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VmvnE6erj6I

The Sun is Always Shining....somewhere!

I am at the point where I am beginning the process of reflecting on the Unplanned Adventure. So here is the first in what I hope to be many! I Pray that it is over, but petrified that the cancer will come back....Look Cancer: I have a certificate that it is over! So Cancer, you are not welcome here!

I don't think cancer cares....This is what I think of cancer:

yup....Cancer Sucks! I want to buy the tee shirt....

I like this better:

 Or This:

TeeHee!!!!

So what brought this all up again? Next week I go back for the first three month check with both Dr. B. and then a week later with Dr. C. On one hand, I am confident, on the other hand. One never knows. Kinda like life! So we pray some more, and we wait. Something we are learning to do.

One of the refections that I am still "chewing on"....because I am a stewer and just can't let things go until I have thoroughly explored every possibility and outcome...is that while cancer is physically devastating, it is the most emotional thing I have ever dealt with. I suppose that might be obvious to many, after all we all have been touched by cancer's ability to take away our family and friends too soon....but for me, it was way more 'everyday'. Cancer, and let's not forget the exceptionally strong drugs that go along with it, have the ability to steal joy and the simple things that are enjoyable in life.....Food and drinks did not 'taste right'. I drink way to much Pepsi...I like pepsi, but not after treatments. I couldn't even drink it. I enjoy pizza. That didn't taste right either. And anything with a tomato based sauce, nope, not for me!

For me, the blander it was, the better it was. Chicken and noodles, chicken noodle soup, yogurt, frozen fruit, puddings, not chocolate tho, Poppy Seed Chicken, popsicles, Schweppes Ginger Ale, and Ice Cream were favorites!

Anyway, cancer and chemo stole enjoyment. I fell asleep during movies. I had no energy to do anything. (So thankful for the gift certificate for the house cleaning!).

Yes, yes, I was surprised at how hard the emotional fight was. So here is what got me through it.....you! your prayers, your support, your love. The messages and cards (I count Facebook messages too) The care packages with things that I needed, that I didn't know I needed. The goofy hats! (I never did get a wig, but I liked the hats!) and faith. And I will say my faith was tested.

But here is the thing.....when I felt like I was at the end of my patience and sanity....it was the community around me that held on and kept me from falling over the edge where I often stood. They pulled me back when I couldn't.

Sometimes I didn't want to get out of bed in the morning....not because I was in pain or not feeling physically well. I just didn't have the umph to put my feet on the floor. That was when I got a push from my beloved....he would say "get out of the bed, take a shower, and let's go....." I hate to admit how much I needed him to do that and how much I love him for doing that....." He did not allow me to feel sorry for myself. We all need someone to do that for us. Even when we do not want to hear it.

Which brings me to how I coped....Well first of all prayer, lots and lots of prayer, and reading the Bible, and then the community and all they said and did....music and inspirational sayings, and I passed them on through Facebook, writing them on post it notes......There were so many that I can't possibly share them all. But one thing I will say, is that when I needed one, it appeared. I cried. I felt better.

All in all, compared to others, I had it easy. I missed out on some of the things that people have to endure. I continue to pray for them. I am thankful that I was able to tolerate the chemo and had minimal side effects.

The other day....I remembered when we went flying the last time, it was cloudy and stormy when we left the air port. As we took off and went above the clouds, the sun was shining. It reminded me that even tho in our everyday lives there are storms and difficulty. Somewhere the sun is always shining. God is always there for you and for me....we just can't loose sight of it....and remember to look up, you never know what you are going to see!

Blessings on your Adventure, Elayne

Soli Deo Gloria!!!!!

I am honored, I am humbled....To God be the Glory!

Look at this....

http://metrodcelca.org/2016/05/gift-from-an-unplanned-adventure/

Just So You Know.....

This is the place where I put things that make me feel better when I am down, and Just make me happy....hope they help you too....
My Playlist if you will.




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BaQdwTsVtCY&list=RDRw5pk5wuANY&index=8

Another Video....but is good and it reminds me to fight

Sharing another video.....

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xo1VInw-SKc

"I Am Going Stand By You"

This is for my family and friends who have been journeying with me through the "Unplanned Adventure"

I am Going to Stand by You

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bwB9EMpW8eY

The May Cross Roads Newsletter Article.....

****Note: We are home from our fantastic vacation to Disney World....While we were there we spent some time exploring and learning about hospitality. Our observations ended up being the newsletter article for the month of May....Here is part 1.

Welcome Home!!!!!

At this very moment, Pastor Dave and I are enjoying time away for rest, renewal, and study. But before we can let go completely and enjoy our time away at Walt Disney World, we must finish our newsletter article! So here it is.

At our Cross Roads Leadership Retreat in February, as we talked as a group three priorities emerged for us to work on. The first one was hospitality and welcoming, the second was how we communicate (website, written materials such as newsletters, bulletins, brochures, and branding), and the third will be having more joint parish opportunities. This month’s newsletter article will focus on Hospitality and Welcoming though “4 Keys”.

St Luke has already started working on some ideas of how to be more welcoming and soon will be inviting the other congregations to join them in some joint trainings on hospitality, and serving as greeters or ushers.

Jesus was clear about welcoming the stranger and taking care of others. Jesus told special stories called parables to demonstrate how important it is. Take for example the story of the “Good Samaritan”. Three people passed by the man laying along the side of the road. The third person to pass by was the Samarian. The Jews hated the people of Samaria. And it was this person who stopped to help and make sure that the man was taken care of. As the priesthood of all believers, we are called to serve those who we like and even those who we consider our enemies.

Pastor Dave and I are in the perfect place to talk about hospitality. After all this place is all about hospitality. They have even written books, have seminars and classes, and they have a university to teach it. But even more importantly Walt Disney World practices it everyday and through out their organization. In the day to day functions of the Church, we can learn from the Disney organization.

First of all, when we arrived we were greeted with a friendly smile and a sincere “Welcome Home”. These words communicated there is a place here for you and we want you here! Disney does details well. From the dedicated parking lot for check in, to providing extra towels for the pool. They go out of their way to ensure your needs are met. Everywhere we looked there was something to see, hear, or do. From the signs that explained things to the carvings on the sides of buildings.

Secondly, there are plenty of people to direct you to where you want to go. Disney provides ample training to their cast members. But they also have trained guests to share information with other guests. We have learned so much by talking with others.

Disney trains every cast-member in the “Four Keys”

1.     Safety

2.     Courtesy

3.     Cleanliness

4.     Efficiency

Safety- is always first key. Examples that we do in our congregations are things like making sure that the ice is removed from sidewalks in the winter and wet spots are cleaned up. We also want to make sure that our SAFE policies are up to date and we ensure that our children are safe in the building.

The second key, Courtesy-refers to how we treat each other and our guests. Making sure they are attended to and questions are answered. When a cast-member enters any guest area, they are ready to serve. They are in costume, they are trained for their area, and Gossip is never tolerated. For us, we want to make sure that we are equipping and empowering the people of Cross Roads to share the Good News Monday through Sunday to all they encounter.

When at Disney or in our congregations, issues arise on a regular basis. Issues are inevitable when there are thousands of employees and millions of guests from all over the world. With that many people there will be messes. Disney has a huge “mousekeeping” staff, but ALL employees are expected to clean up and to help each other out as needed.

Which brings us to Key #3 Cleanliness. Disney strives to keep things clean and updated. While we don’t have the budget that Disney does. There are things we can do. We can make sure that our public spaces are welcoming and cheerful.

And the finally Key is Efficiency- As a parish we have the opportunity to do things together. If we choose, we can coordinate the ordering of supplies to be able to take advantage of discounts. We can save staff time by offering the same Bible Study one time rather than the same thing four times. Same goes for some of the other programs of the church.

Disney World prioritizes these things so the most important is Safety. When there are two things that are equally important, Disney looks to the highest ranking thing. All of these things contribute to a positive experience.

We would propose that for us as a parish, we add a Key Ring, the ring to hold us together….Our “key ring” is God and the Good News that we are called to proclaim. Walt Disney once said….”Whatever you do, do it well”.

Refreshed and Renewed.....

We left our house three weeks ago in the overpacked camper and truck. We were EXHAUSTED physically, emotionally, and spiritually. There was not much left to give. As a couple we had been snapping at each other for weeks. Truly Dave could barely smile! Tho he did not loose his sense of humor......

For everyone, life takes a toll.....life is stressful. For us this year was unusual.....and we did our best to cope and keep up with things..... I did the stress-O-meter test at a retreat a few weeks ago and my score was off the chart.....Yikes!  We had:

• A family member with a Serious illness
• change in family status (we have a wedding in the family this summer)
• Lent/Easter with extra worship services
• Every three weeks since last summer we had a funeral, two were just before Easter.
• end of school year stuff
• long winter
• and a few other things.....

I am not complaining....just saying! And then I read again:

³¹He said to them, “Come away to a deserted place all by yourselves and rest a while.” For many were coming and going, and they had no leisure even to eat. ³²And they went away in the boat to a deserted place by themselves. Mark 6:31-32

That passage reminded me that even Jesus went away to rest....and so by Jesus example, we are encouraged to go away to rest too....Each week we are given the gift of Sabbath. But we, as humans feel the need to fill up all the time with business and don't always take the gift to rest. And we become tired from all the things, even the good things that we do in a day.

So we left....it would have been good to stay home, but when we are at home, we find more things to do, and so we don't rest......We drove south and arrived at our destination Monday evening....just in time to go to our room and sleep.....four days later we woke up! Ok not really, but we were in bed early and I got up late!

Part of our time away was for continuing education. We read books, studied, wrote, and did a few interviews.

Other times we celebrated.....

We opened the Magic Kingdom! 

We ate foods that were new to us and are now favorites....Chicken Tikka Masala and beef Kabobs are my new favorite! Dave had a new kind of fish....he loved it and wants to go back to Cafe Marachesh and Yak and Yeti.....

Well, the bus and the monorail are here to take us on another adventure.....See you later!

We came back rested and renewed.......Soli Deo Gloria!

Random Observations from Living in Community ......

People watching is one of our favorite things to do....and we have done a lot of it this week! Here are some observations.....

Just because you can, does not mean you should.....

I no longer appreciate strollers the size of a small car, filled with everything including the kitchen sink.....

Nap time is important...especially for the over 21 crowd......

Sunscreen should be worn at all times in Southern Florida......

The middle of a crowded path is not the best place to have a picnic.

I am surprised by the number of people who never say thank you....I am also surprised by the number of people who are kind and helpful....Rarely are they the same person......

I use to love pineapple dole whips....kinda off them right now.....they tasted the same as the gallon of "go lightly" I had to drink before surgery.....gag!

The line for the mirrors was as long as the line to use the restroom facilities....humm....

The happiest place on earth is not the happiest place for everyone.

Most little ones like to play peek-a-boo.

There are always four buses to places you are not going before the one you need shows up.....

When lighting strikes, there is a large fireball where the strike lands.....yup we saw that.

Hats are noticed.....we saw someone wearing a John Deere hat, we said nice hat....she said my husband works for Deere....we asked where, she said Iowa.....

It is the little things that matter.

Ice Cream always tastes good....

Merry-Go-Rounds make you feel like you are 5 again, or still.

Mud puddles are made to make a splash.

Wherever you go, there you are.....

Rarely is it a good idea to smoke a cigarette and drive....even less of a good idea is to hang your head and arm out the window of a car to smoke your cigarette in traffic going 70+ MPH....ya, we saw someone doing that.....