Friday, April 13, 2018

Quick Update....
Life is good! Really good....Still have cancer, still taking chemo pills. But these pills have less severe side effects. I tell my doctor, they are a miracle!!! Checks have been good too. So we continue to live in grace and hope....

On another note....It was our turn to host our monthly conference meeting. So I pulled out an old recipe and made them for a snack. This time I added a zippy dip. They were Sausage balls with a mustard dipping sauce.....Great for breakfast or anytime.

Sausage Balls
3 cups biscuit mix
1 pound breakfast sausage, fried and crumbled or 1 ½  cups chopped ham
2 cups shredded cheddar cheese
½ cup parmesan cheese
2 tablespoons parsley flakes
2 teaspoons spicy mustard
2/3 cup milk
Combine all ingredients . Shape into 1 inch balls. Place approximately 2 inches apart on a greased cookie sheet. Bake in a 350 degree oven for 20 to 25 minutes. Remove from pan, serve warm. Can substitute pepperoni if you want.

Dipping Sauce
½ cup mayo
½ cup sour cream
1 tablespoon spicy mustard
1 teaspoon rice vinegar
2-6 drops hot sauce
½ teaspoon garlic powder or 2 cloves garlic minced
Combine and chill. Serve with sausage balls

Monday, October 30, 2017

Standing in the Need of Prayer....

When I was a kid, I loved to watch people play the piano, so I begged to take piano lessons. My grandma brought a piano. From then on I spent Saturday mornings going to piano lessons. I took lessons for six years. But, sadly playing the piano, just is not my gift. I can read the music, I can play the treble line, I can play the treble cleft line, I just can't play the whole thing at the same time. And if I have to move my hands, well, it just gets ugly quick! My gift is to be the listener. I can listen for hours.....

Even tho I will never, never, never play a piano in public....I do play in the privacy of my own world. I just sit down and play the song or two that I do know.....one of these is "Standing in the Need of Prayer". It is an old 'spiritual'. The version that I played is a simple strait forward  tune with strong words that spoke to me as a teen ager but speaks to me even more as a middle aged grandmother.

One of the great gifts that was freely given happened in Biloxi, Mississippi. We were there helping out after Hurricane Katrina. My job was to be the 'receptionist' in the free clinic at Bethel Lutheran Church that was providing medical care staffed by volunteer physicians, nurses, pharmacists, and counselors. I, of course was beating myself up because I could not provide counseling or medical treatment, or fix their houses, or take their hurt away....

So I served where I could, I was the receptionist. I was to pull files, refile the files that were done, greet the people, get them where they needed to be. As I became more comfortable in the role, I found my place and became more comfortable. I took it upon myself, to be a listener. It took no prompting, just is sitting down next to them and saying hello. I stood on holy ground as they talked about loosing family members, friends, and neighbors. No one talked about earthly passions, one woman just missed her neighborhood and knowing her neighbors. After the first day, I thought I had gotten into trouble, when the doctor asked who was staffing the waiting room....Whatever was happening he wanted it to continue because people were coming in to see him in happy moods.

One afternoon, I lost one of the people sitting in the waiting room....I went to find her. I found her playing the baby grand piano in the sanctuary of the church. There was no printed music. Just her, God, and the most beautiful sounds I have ever heard....the song? "Standing in the Need of Prayer"

Standing in the need of prayer.....how often to we find ourselves in that spot?!? Well, I am finding myself in that very spot, yet again.....I am feeling great but the cancer has come back. The details of what that means are unclear. We don't know how many treatments, or how my body will react, or if it will work. I was accepted into a research study/drug trial. I am in the section where I will take the new treatment and it is in a pill form with less side effects.

While this is not the news that I had hoped for, it is on the positive side of bad news.

We continue to live in hope. There is good news in all of this.....the doctors think that it is a slow moving cancer. It is in one place, it has not spread. They have been keeping an eye on all of this for a year an a half.....it responded to the chemo therapy the last time, so hoping that it works again. The treatments will begin the first week of November. That is the good news....

We all stand in the need of prayer....not just for when the news is difficult.  But also to celebrate life or to just talk with our creator.

Standing in the Need of Prayer, today and always!




Friday, February 24, 2017

Best Christmas Present Ever!



I Corinthians  3:1-9/10-23

One of the best Christmas presents I ever received was the year when I was 8. The gift was for my brother, sister, and I….. all three of us would have to share it. It was a record player and three records…..my record was the Disney recording of the Three little pigs narrated by Sterling Holloway….anyway the story went like this.

Once upon a time, there were three little pigs who left their mother to build homes of their own. The first little pig built his house of straw. The second little pig built his house of sticks. The third little pig built his house of brick. And the pigs would sing; “Who’s afraid of the big bad wolf, the big bad wolf, the big bad wolf. Tra, la, la, la la…..

Soon the Big Bad Wolf came to visit the three little pigs. When the little pig in the straw house would not let him in, the Big Bad Wolf huffed and he puffed until he blew that house in. When the little pig in the house of sticks would not let the wolf in, the Big Bad Wolf huffed and he puffed,,,,and then he huffed and he puffed until he blew the house in. When the Big Bad Wolf came to the pig in the house of brick, he huffed and he puffed, but he could not blow that house in. For his house was made of brick.

Old stories like this one endure from generation to generation because there is a kernel of truth in them that every generation can learn from. In our second reading from I Corinthians it says, “We are God's fellow workers, we are God's building."

Everybody has a house to build. Our houses hold our lives. Every moral is a beam; every window is a dream; every door is an opportunity; and every roof is protection from the storm. We all have a house that we have buil.

THE FOUNDATION IS CRITICAL
God, the master architect has given us the gift of Baptism as a foundation. Through baptism frail and weak humans are transformed with love, faith, hope, and grace. We use this as the foundation for our house of faith. As we live and grow, the foundation will built upon. We ought to choose with care how to build on it. Sometimes we do….sometimes we don’t. We are not perfect…

Jesus is a blueprint for life. the death of Jesus proved the redemptive possibilities of death. The resurrection of Jesus is the assurance that life wins. 

BUILDING MATERIALS MAKE A DIFFERENCE
The first little pig built his house of straw. It was cheap, quick, easy and it did not take much effort. It worked on the bright. sunny, perfect days….it worked for awhile.

Perhaps the first little pig substituted luck for grace. maybe he  had never heard, or maybe he learned about it in Sunday School and forgot. Possibly he no longer believed in the grace of God. So consequently he gravitated to luck and took a chance that he would never need the strong house of hope.

The second little pig built his house of sticks. Sticks are not a bad building material. A stick house could offer security. It would keep the pig dry when it rained. It could stand up to some wind. But the dry sticks can burn easily. The second pig saved so much time, talent and energy….that he could easily collect all kinds of stuff. The second pig had all the latest gadgets and gismos.

Comedian George Carlin once said, “The essence of life is trying to find a place to put all your stuff," the cars, the boats, the houses, the land, the stocks, and the bonds. Life is more than stuff, even good stuff.

The third little pig built his house of brick and precious stones, he used some other strong materials like iron, granite, and gold. The little pig insured that he had taken his time to find land that was solid. He had made an investment in the foundation and building materials. He had found a treasure to use as building materials.

When we build faith we do so with the treasures of practices and disciplines. Faith practices of prayer, worship, inviting others into the community, encouragement, giving, service, study, and forgiveness.

Even when there is a strong foundation, awesome faith practices, and strong building materials, we can not prevent the wolf from coming….

Paul's writes in I Corinthians 13 “There are three things that abide. They are faith, hope, and love." Perhaps these things are the plaster and the nails that hold everything together……(pause)

These are three things that we live into and need to be attended to with and by the grace of God…faith. Hope. And love.

You all know that Last year I was diagnosed with cancer, worst day of my life…... a week later I went to the initial consultation with the oncologists. I have to admit I was afraid. I was confused, I tried rationalizing and minimizing the whole thing…… the word cancer had rocked my world and shook my faith and not in a good way.

Swirling around my head were a lot of questions such as, why me? How do I deserve this?

The doctors reveled the results of the tests, asked if I had any questions, and then came the words that silenced the room and sent me to the place of defeat…..The words were: “you have a 50/50 chance. I immediately thought about the question from philosophy class….is the glass have full or half empty?

I searched through the words to find the good news, it was going to be hard to find hope among all of the uncertainties. The room continued to be silent as all of us grappled with the reality of the glass could be half empty.

Until Dr. Benvarnsen (incorrect spelling) from Iceland spoke up and said the words that I needed to hear, the words that you need to hear when confronted by “the wolves of life”….he said:

”People who tend to do well in these situations are people who have three things.

1. They have a positive outlook about people and life.
2. They have a strong support system and relationships with people who love them.
3. And three, they are people who live a life of faith."

Building a strong foundation and using strong building materials is not going to prevent the Wolf from coming….Living a life of faith using faith practices is not going to keep the bad stuff from happening.

What faith does/ is allow us to reveal our part in God’s story. It allows us to find hope, to find love. It allows us to be in a relationship of a caring community of believers. 

And let us not forget, that it helps us to remember that things did not end well for the wolf….In the end, no matter what happens, if it turns out well for us, or not. In the end, God Wins!

And that allows us to live in the sure confidence of a kingdom that is here, but is yet to come.


Thursday, December 1, 2016

The Adventure Continues.....

I am in complete disbelief....or denial....that TODAY is the first day of December!!!! I think to myself, how did this happen. My body clock is still somewhere in August basking in the summer sunshine. I kinda feel like I missed summer. While we had some serious fun and enjoyed every second, I still long for more....camping with the grand babies (who are no longer anywhere close to babies! Kamryn is 10 and Kolton is 11....already!) camping with grandpa, trips to the drive-in for ice cream, planning, and writing.....


Yet time marches on even when I am not ready to move on! Yup! my hair is growing and now I have to use the hair brush.....

So, the adventure continues....tho not so drastic as the last unplanned adventure. But related. Three weeks or so ago, I was diagnosed with Type 2 diabetes. So I am learning to count carbs, exercise more, and make better choices. So far so good. I am lucky! And I believe that I have been given a second chance at life and I better make the most of it....

I am grateful that it was diagnosed early, and if I get my bad habits under control, perhaps it will not be sooooooo bad.....

Life in the parish is awesome....We have good days and bad days, but more good than bad. And we have awesome partners in ministry. The picture below is of this year's Confirmation Class...We had 6 in our class from three of the four congregations! Check out the link to an article about our amazing parish!


http://www.livinglutheran.org/2016/11/parish-delivers-meals-farmers-harvest/

More Later,
Blessings for the Journey!
Elayne

Friday, September 2, 2016

Quick summary of the Summer of 2016!

We have had quite the summer and it has been some time since the last post....
Kevin and Rachel were married on July 30!!!! It was a glorious day, we had so much fun and our only regret is that we were not able to get around to visit with everyone at the reception.

 Kevin Rachel and their cakes....The Tree cake and the Norwegian Wedding Cake
New Friends!
And then there was the mission trip to Alabama and South Carolina....We went as families. So many blessings and stories to tell....



And the last week we have been exploring and having a great time resting and renewing! Coloring books and puzzles have been the most important things we have done, and touring the Daytona Speedway....a new fan was born! Oh and we survived Hurricane Hermine!









Monday, June 6, 2016

Abraham and Isaac......

To start with....I am complicated, and I am difficult (I announced on Saturday that David is difficult. And he is! I confess I am too, and somehow together we make it work. There I have confessed, now to back to the story)

I tell you I am complicated, because before I get to the point there are some things you might need to know. First, I love to do Lectio Devina. I like to do it alone, and I like to do it with groups...It is quiet time, where I fall head first into the Word and let it surround me like a warm bath. I just fall in and let the words just run through my brain and then I listen to what God is trying to day today....

The second thing is that in addition to who I am today and what I do today, I have a past full of experiences of a Social Worker....I love that work, and sometimes I miss it. But I love what I do now. And sometimes the two things are intertwined...but I digress....when I wanted to get a kid to talk, we went for a walk. And they talk they did....

So here is where those two random thoughts collide....Today's Bible reading from one of the email devotions I receive is from Genesis 22. I cut and pasted it below if you are interested. It is the story of when God tests Abraham by asking Abraham to sacrifice his beloved son Isaac....Does the story line sound familiar? (It should! The same plot line happens again a few thousands of years later.) 

If you do Lectio Divina you know that you read the text. And then dwell in the word for a little bit. Then read it again and pick out the words or phrases that speak to you......Today I was struck by the words, "the two of them walked together." Abraham and his young son, Isaac were walking together. We can only imagine what Abraham was thinking and feeling or what they talked about. But what we do know was that God was testing Abraham and had asked Abraham to sacrifice his son. After all they had been through....God promised a great nation would come from Abraham's family and here was the start the nation, of the Israelites ...

How could this be? In the end the angels stopped Abraham and there was a nation.

Abraham had a unique relationship with God....Abraham was faithful in the face of the unthinkable. And in the end God provided. Personally I find hope in this amazing story of faith. I can't help that when the two were walking, God was there too. Everyday we walk with God, even when we may not know it..... 


Genesis 22:1-14 (NRSV)

After these things God tested Abraham. He said to him, "Abraham!" And he said, "Here I am." He said, "Take your son, your only son Isaac, whom you love, and go to the land of Moriah, and offer him there as a burnt offering on one of the mountains that I shall show you." So Abraham rose early in the morning, saddled his donkey, and took two of his young men with him, and his son Isaac; he cut the wood for the burnt offering, and set out and went to the place in the distance that God had shown him. On the third day Abraham looked up and saw the place far away. Then Abraham said to his young men, "Stay here with the donkey; the boy and I will go over there; we will worship, and then we will come back to you." Abraham took the wood of the burnt offering and laid it on his son Isaac, and he himself carried the fire and the knife. So the two of them walked on together. Isaac said to his father Abraham, "Father!" And he said, "Here I am, my son." He said, "The fire and the wood are here, but where is the lamb for a burnt offering?" Abraham said, "God himself will provide the lamb for a burnt offering, my son." So the two of them walked on together.

When they came to the place that God had shown him, Abraham built an altar there and laid the wood in order. He bound his son Isaac, and laid him on the altar, on top of the wood. Then Abraham reached out his hand and took the knife to kill his son. But the angel of the LORD called to him from heaven, and said, "Abraham, Abraham!" And he said, "Here I am." He said, "Do not lay your hand on the boy or do anything to him; for now I know that you fear God, since you have not withheld your son, your only son, from me." And Abraham looked up and saw a ram, caught in a thicket by its horns. Abraham went and took the ram and offered it up as a burnt offering instead of his son. So Abraham called that place "The LORD will provide"; as it is said to this day, "On the mount of the LORD it shall be provided."​